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Definition of mess



  • a person who isn't good at life. For example, a person who is unstable emotionally, or whose life is constantly more chaotic than the norm.
    Girl, stay away from him, he's a mess!

    Citation from "Double Date / Mom", Louie (TV), Season 1 Episode 7 (2010) censored in hope of resolving Google's penalty against this site.

    Last edited on Feb 18 2014. Submitted by Walter Rader (Editor) from Sacramento, CA, USA on Oct 27 2011.

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Definitions include: a person - almost always male - who behaves in ways that openly display his horniness.
Definitions include: a person who thinks he's a lot cooler than he really is.
Definitions include: to fail to meet someone at a designated location.
Definitions include: to take advantage of.
Definitions include: a person who causes others great distress for personal satisfaction, usually in computer games.
Definitions include: a boring, humorless person; "wet blanket".
Definitions include: to not leave a gratuity.
Definitions include: a person without cable television.
Definitions include: a person who has a menial job and who works at a desk.
Definitions include: bland, uninspired, boring, or insipid.
Definitions include: an obsequious person; "suck-up".
Definitions include: a random insult.
Definitions include: a non-Jewish female.
Definitions include: someone who pretends to be someone they're not, usually in dress and speech; "poseur"; "wannabe"; "fake".
Definitions include: a physically masculine woman.

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Definitions include: acronym for "don't mess yourself", i.e. don't go to the bathroom in one's pants.
Definitions include: a person or thing in disarray.
Definitions include: to engage in sexual activity; "fool around".
Definitions include: very inappropriate.
Definitions include: severely under the influence of alcohol or drugs.
Definitions include: to severely injure.
Definitions include: to joke around with someone.
Definitions include: disgusting, dirty, not cute or sexy.
Definitions include: strongly.
Definitions include: Southern slang for cute or adorable.

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