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Definition of an umfriend


  • a sexual relation.
    Meet Sally. She's my... um... friend.
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    Last edited on Dec 07 2011. Submitted by Peter C. from Chicago, IL, USA on Jul 01 1997.


  • a person who is placed between friend and girlfriend -- a person who cannot identify as one's girlfriend but cannot identify as one's friend. The word originated from the uneasy phrase, "um... friend?" and putting the two words together.
    "Hey, guys, I'm Derek, Sarah's... um... friend."

    Last edited on Mar 07 2018. Submitted by Anonymous on Sep 02 2017.

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